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Anonymous said: My friend has a boyfriend.I'm very happy for her, but she is talking about him the whole time and nothing else. It annoys me so much. We’ve already talked about it, but it’s like she doesn’t care. It’s always him. She doesn’t care about other things anymore and it’s like she’s letting me fall. I understand she's in love, but letting her friends fall? We are drifting apart, any tips?

Sometimes when a girl gets a boyfriend that’s all she can think about and nothing else matters. Try talking to her gently and saying that you are happy for her and all but he’s not your boyfriend so you aren’t that interested in talking about him all the time. It’s really a waste to lose a friend over her boyfriend but once they break up she will be right back to you and if you aren’t friends anymore then she will be alone. Be straightforward about the situation and don’t try to beat around the problem. Let me know how it goes! -bella

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Anonymous said: tips to help grow hair longer? And does anyone know a good brand for a curling wand?

Keep your hair healthy and get split ends cut off. There are some shampoos and conditioners for long hair. Really just time. Everyone’s hair grows at different speeds. And I know target has a few good ones! -Bella

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Hi guys! Just a little reminder that we are still here! Whenever you need help or just someone to talk to this is your safe place! :)

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Anonymous said: What should I do; my best friend and I are starting to drift apart. Should I let it happen or try and stop it?

Do you want to drift apart? Are they a good friend? If they are worth it you will try and stop it. I would try to stay best friends. There’s nothing worse than losing a best friend trust me. It’s awful. Try to hang out with them a bit more and you just might have to make a little more effort! -Bella

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Anonymous said: I fucking hate it when people come to me on here and ask what's wrong and then I tell them and then they never fucking answer back. Like I don't have enough shit to deal with but you're just going to make me feel worse? Like fucking seriously why bother coming to me if you aren't going to reply WHY.

I understand completely. It’s happened to me before. Some people are just inconsiderate or they could have forgotten to reply. Sometimes they might not know how to reply. If you ever need anything just come here and talk to us! -Bella

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Anonymous said: I feel like I do so fucking much for other people & I care so much. I think people could care less if I was in their life. It's just really frustrating because everyone thinks I have no problems because they don't bother asking. Sorry this was just kind of a rant but I'm just tired of caring so much about people who don't feel the same.

No that’s totally ok! Rants are always good! It helps get things out! I hope you feel better after that. Try to surround yourself with positive people. Some people just don’t care but that’s not your fault. -Bella

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Anonymous said: Everytime a guy is a little bit nice to me I fall for him. FML. I'm so lame.

That actually used to happen to me all the time. Legit. I know how you feel. Before you start to fall for them ask yourself a few questions. Figure out if he’s really a jerk and if he would be good for you. Don’t just jump into things cause they seem nice. -Bella

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